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in. Hey Wendy. After I start talking to a guy i n a dating app and we move the conversation over to texting, we text non-stop, all day, every day. I always find myself texting this person throughout the day about every little detail of our lives. I can tell the end of the relationship is drawing near. We went from texting every second until about the 3rd date, to hardly hearing from him, and we are on our 5—6 date. I only get texts from him now when we are setting up a time and place to meet. My question is, is this drastic change in communication something I should be worried about?
Thanks Wendy! Jenny — San Francisco. Hey Jenny! Waaay too much! It makes you feel safe, special and thought of. You get a massive hit of dopamine flushing through your system every single time a new text comes in and you hear that special notification ding — I get it. You want and need this kind of high. Connection and attention are what makes the feminine thrive.
Uninterrupted time to focus on goals and produce is what makes the masculine thrive. The struggle is real. When you first meet someone new and you go out on a few dates, you can and should expect to:. He has not yet ed up for the boyfriend role and thus for that level of communication.
So why is all this texting happening then, you ask? So connecting by text multiple times a day is something some men will get into and have fun with at the start. When he stops reaching out to you as often, consider the possibility that this is a good thing. Not so quick for the guys out there. So, my hot tip for you is to chill. What do you think? Okay, good luck out there! Wendy Newman is the author of First Dates. Need one-on-one coaching from Wendy?
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